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Help Someone… Like a Girl

The only thing that I’ve ever accomplished without the help of women was becoming a motorcyclist. Every other achievement in my life, is owed at least in some small part to the help of a woman, or “a girl.”  Here’s a look at the art of helping someone (like a girl) in the 21st century, how one woman is addressing the difficulties women face entering sports (or power sports), and a special message for men out there.

We’re blessed to live in a world where your furthest friend is still only a text message away. We’re mislabeled as a generation hiding behind screens. We aren’t hiding. We’re the most efficient networkers alive. This generation can share information faster than any other. After years of silence, a few brief messages from an old university friend was all it took to arrange a meeting. We were seated at a pub across the street from High Park, in Toronto. Rebecca wanted to meet to talk about websites, a subject I know a thing or two about.

I had a very superficial understanding of Rebecca Bradshaw until this point. I still do. In university she was just another partner in a communications class. She had given the impression of being smart, well-organized, and dependable for the team. It wasn’t until she mentioned that she rode ATVs that I understood that Rebecca was part of the cool kids club, rock on! Rebecca Bradshaw Founder of She Can Shred

After I went over the hows and whys of motorcycle blogging, and all of the things she’d like to know, Rebecca unveiled her plan: SheCanShred.com – a website devoted to boarding (on pavement, water, and snow) with a focus on women in these sports. I saw (and even got a mention in – thanks!) an article on Very Important Things where Rebecca outlined her thought process:

I think a huge reason girls are underrepresented in board sports is because it is a little intimidating when you’re the only girl boarding, especially when there are so many amazing male boarders out there.

This intimidation concept really hit me when I was watching a miniseries on Alana Blanchard, one of my favourite surfers. She was nervous about paddling out where some major male names in surfing were shredding. I was totally speechless because I know Alana can hold her own in the water. Her confession really opened my eyes to how many girls hold themselves back when they go out boarding because they feel intimidated.

The site is going to target girls who have never boarded and amateur boarders. We will dig into issues that are deterring girls from boarding like intimidation and getting hurt. We’re going to talk to women who work and compete in boarding and gather girls who have never tried boarding. – Rebecca Bradshaw on Very Important Things

I read the article the same day that I had helped a very drunk female friend (not Rebecca) make it through the night, and (surprisingly) to work the next day. I may not have gotten to sleep until 8:00 AM, but just a few days earlier this same friend had spent four hours in a car, to help me run errands that you just can’t do on a motorcycle. I was happy to be able to return the favour. Not that it’s ever about that. It’s never about being owed a favor or bullshit hidden agendas. It’s about opening doors for people, and making the most of doors that people open for you. Together we all win. Rebecca Bradshaw She Can Shred Founder

While reading the article I saw the parallel between boarding and motorcycling (heck, even her first article The Art of Falling sounds familiar to motorcyclists). We have all of the same mental barriers which could make entering the sport uncomfortable for women. There’s something else that Rebecca didn’t touch on, but that is so common for female motorcyclists that its a central theme to the movie Girl Meets Bike: Generally when a man helps another man get into motorcycling he speaks the way he would speak the way he would to an equal. Unfortunately, some men who help women get into motorcycling will speak and act as if they were out on a date.

About Adrian

Adrian is the YouMotorcycle Editor. He never planned on becoming a blogger, but liked the idea of sharing his passion and encouraging others to get out and ride. He believes that anyone thinking about buying a motorcycle should hurry up and buy one, and that everyone who already owns a motorcycles should ride more. He likes V-Twins, scooters, and breaking social norms. He occasionally wears a suit and high-top sneakers when he rides to work. Sometimes he takes out his tools and everything goes from bad to worse. Sometimes everything just falls into his lap. Whatever the case he stays grateful and always tries to learn. If you feel motorcycling is a lifestyle, follow him via social media.

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